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Originally Posted by Graeme S
I have a password on my phone. I also have nothing to hide. I don't give it out to people. I'll let people borrow my phone to do stuff, but it's a very rare case where my phone is actually out of my sight.
I won't give out the password to my girl. Why? Because I'm hiding something? No. Because I don't want to have this expectation of complete openness. There are some things I don't want to talk about. Some things I want to keep to myself. Some things my friends expect me to keep confidential.
Accidental pregnancies? Looking for a new job while not telling the old one? Possibly messing around on the side and looking for advice?
My girlfriend doesn't need to know which of my friends may or may not be doing those things and what advice I am giving to them (which may jade her attitude towards me, despite me not doing anything with/to her).
Privacy is not a new idea. Keep it.
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the man has a point
once you open yourself to the "let's-share-absolutely-everything" status in a relationship, often times there's no going back