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you shouldnt have to tell her anything.
im practically with my gf everyday. i have 2 phones , both with passwords. She too has an iphone and i know she talks to her friends alot and i respect her in sence where i wont go snooping into her phone unless she tells me to look at something.
i just think that a phone still should be labeled as something that could be private. Like your banking info, you dont give that shit around. If she asks me for my pin, i just reverse it on her with a joke. "so you can put money into my account that has a negative balance? ( laugh) " and play it on. she forgets every time. LOL
At the end , i stood my ground and she eventually figured out my boundaries. I aint going to give her everything that she asks. There are limits and make sure that i state them and enforce them. Otherwise, if i give her my passcode, next will be my pin, then whe will want to create a bank account together, then spend my money... but thats just me.
and i'm crazy like that.
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