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Originally Posted by Culture_Vulture
the man has a point
once you open yourself to the "let's-share-absolutely-everything" status in a relationship, often times there's no going back
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Originally Posted by cruz-in
you shouldnt have to tell her anything.
Otherwise, if i give her my passcode, next will be my pin, then whe will want to create a bank account together, then spend my money... but thats just me.
and i'm crazy like that.
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IMO, if you see a future with your girl then there shouldn't be a problem.
I really don't see an issue with letting your gf know your passcode for your phone assuming that after 1-2 years or however long you guys have been together, you realize this girl is a keeper. If there's no future then it doesn't matter wtf you do. Makes me wonder why this is still an issue for the OP seeing as they've been together for over 3 years...
I also don't understand this "one thing leads to another...." thing where you guys somehow think it's just gonna snowball into something big like sharing bank PINs and online banking passwords...
Maybe you guys have been dating irrational and crazy bitches but I don't see the connection. After you guys have been together for a while, there comes a point where you guys are quite involved in each other's lives and things like your cellphone password is so trivial (unless you have something to hide). It also means that you guys draw the line somewhere and obviously, for most people I would say, bank passwords are on a whole 'nother level and these aren't shared unless you guys are married or something.
My gf and I are approaching 7 years and we know each other's phone passwords (can't remember when we first shared but it was LONG ago, probably year 1 or 2). We know each other's passwords for other things too which I won't mention (but not bank stuff). Comes in handy when I'm driving and receive a text because my girlfriend can check for me.