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Originally Posted by T.T
IMO, if you see a future with your man then there shouldn't be a problem.
I really don't see an issue with not getting your passcode for your phone from your bf assuming that after 1-2 years or however long you guys have been together, you realize he's keeper. If there's no future then it doesn't matter wtf you do. Makes me wonder why this is still an issue for the OP seeing as they've been together for over 3 years...
I also don't understand this "one thing leads to another...." thing where you guys somehow think it's just gonna snowball into something big like sharing bank PINs and online banking passwords... 
Maybe you guys have been dating irrational and crazy bitches but I don't see the connection. After you guys have been together for a while, there comes a point where you guys are quite involved in each other's lives and things like not having your boyfriend's cellphone password is so trivial (unless you have something to hide). It also means that you guys draw the line somewhere and obviously, for most people I would say, bank passwords are on a whole 'nother level and these aren't shared unless you guys are married or something. |
Just wanted to flip this around; agree with the parts I didn't change, but relationships are a two way street. If she thinks he's a keeper, she wouldn't be so annoyed at this. Her doing this means she is now (perhaps for a reason) suspicious, or that she will never trust him in the long run unless she can essentially babysit him.
Trust works both ways, people!