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Originally Posted by Lamboda
You should just make light conversation and ask her what she's doing on the day you want to go out. If she changes the topic, change back to it. You gotta boss it out sometimes she's not really testing you per-say but you need to be firm and hold your ground. You said you asked her out for lunch but she changed the topic. Well change it back by saying you didn't answer my question. She'll give you a response the second time around. But if she's busy don't pressure too hard. If she likes you or is at least interested, she'll make it easy for you and tell you when she's free.
Don't be like, let's go out Thursday oh you're busy? Then how about Friday? No... then Saturday?
You need to posture up and show that you have a life.
And from what you've said about how you feel about her, I suggest you better control those feelings or those bitch butterflies are gonna get you good.
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ive had women change the topic on me countless times, and ive always asked them again 3 seconds after they change the topic by telling them to answer the question....just make sure your smiling and you say it playfully/jokingly so she doesnt think your some serious wannabe stalker...
ps - dont come off like your trying to be her friend...or thats exactly what you'll become and nothing more....let her know from the getgo that you have a crush on her.