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Old 02-17-2012, 10:26 AM   #5
Noir
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So I meet this girl around Nov of last year at a friend's party. We didn't speak much, it was more of a "Hi this is so and so" kinda of meet and greet. At that time I didn't think of it much.

Fast forward to Jan this year, from the friend that introduce us, she hinted that girl have sort of a interest in mine and being single so I though sure why not give it a chance so I got the girl phone# and we started to chat and txt everyday. Things went pretty well and we made plans for V-Day dinner.

Dinner went smooth and on the way home she mention something like she told her mom about me and her mom was happy for her. I was like and confuse because we have seen each other alone less than 5 times O_o. I didn't respond much to that and just said that's good your mom is happy for you. She invited me to her house for dinner on Thurs so I though sure why not is just dinner right.

Her friend told me the dinner was actually for her birthday (her birthday is a month away but she had final and stuff to do so she decided to celebrate early). Her friend even said she mention she meet a new guy. Pretty much i know that's me at that point. Since I didn't have time to prepare her a birthday present I folded about 500lish lucky stars and 100lish heart for her (stay up all night doing that ><). Also get her a build a bear (Since I got her roses for V-Day and the roses came with a teddy bear and I remember how much she likes the teddy bear so I got her one).

Went to her birthday party and she introduce me to all her frids as her bf. Handed her the present, we had a good dinner. When is time for cake her frds made us kiss we did it she seems quite happy about it since she went in for a 2nd one.......

We play some drinking games and stuff till around 12lish. Got home talk to her for a bit and she seems really happy, and really like my presents (I was thinking to myself man those aren't really caring gifts since I didn't put much though into it since I only spend a night making them......).

I mean I do like her, but I do think things is going a bit too fast @@. I haven't really get to know her all that well, and I am sure she haven't known me very well as well......... I do know she is the type of person when she sets a goal or decide to do something she have it all plan out and will try her hardest to achieve it. We get along fine and seem to click in well. She is currently going to school and I am working. So I just go with the flow or maybe slow down a bit? And no we are both pretty close to our 30's already.

Sorry for the long background details.....
Play along with it as long as you're getting some enjoyment out of it. There's no obligation for you to do things you don't want to because she's not going to leave you just because not all your interests are parallel; but there is enough of a parrallel to stay around.

The risk of it is... "what happens when there's another guys who she can share more parallel interests with her." Either she's worth stepping things up for, or she's not.

But I say cross that bridge when you get there (or its your call if you want to pre-empt it)
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