^do you not understand what OP said? Imotional cheating is a real thing and it hurts people
OP, there are ways to make it up to her. Most importantly you keep saying your sorry, every chance you can, you say your sorry. Then after she gets mad at you for saying sorry all the time, you say your sorry for saying your sorry.
the cold truth is, your never going to be done apologizing, its an on going process and you need to understand what your going to have to do to stay with her (if thats whats you want).
buy her flowers every now and then, write a card saying something like "just because its monday, i love you". Its the tiniest attention to details that makes her love you. In the first year or two we pay every little attention to our significant other and thats what makes them fall in love with us, but then we get comfortable and start paying less attention; the second that happens, they know.
right now your at a point where she feels you dont try at all, and that she feels because you are not trying she thinks you dont care about her anymore. You have more fun with friends who are girls then you and her have together in a very long time. That is emotional cheating, its a long and torturous feeling and it hurts as much as physical cheating. She feels betrayed and very alone
remind her everyday that you love her. Hug her a little bit longer before you go to work, kiss her goodnight every night. Txt her every now and then just cause you want to say hi. Get back to the feeling you had in the first year and pay attention to every detail.
if you truly love someone then you will do everything you possibly can to stay with her. Every couple goes through this, but not everybody can get out of there comfort zone that they have created for themselves.
hope this helps. It helped me.
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