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Originally Posted by dinosaur
Dude, if she heard you clearly the first time you mentioned taking her out for lunch and changed the subject with no answer...you are not going to like the answer the second time you ask.
If she had interest in you like that, she would have responded the first time. Don't embarass her by having to reject you twice.
Don't be the creeper at work that keeps asking her out that she laughs with her friends about.
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I disagree. There could be a dozen good reasons why she "rejected" him by changing the topic. Changing a topic is not a rejection yet.
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really cute and I can't get her off my mind
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Use your own words and tell her: "I feel you are very cute, can I interest you in a cup of coffee? I would love to get to know you better." It is not threatening and if she has a boyfriend/husband or otherwise not interested, she will let you know. It is general curtesy to explain your situation. Anything short of "I am sorry, but I cannot bla bla bla" is not a rejection yet in my books.
If you sound confident and honest, your chances will be much better! Grow a pair and just ask.
OP, you are not a mind reader and neither is she. Go up to her and say it how it is, the way you described it in your post