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[Confidential] No physical intimacy, what to do?
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I have been with my s/o for over half a year now and the relationship is great in every area but one. The physical portion of the relationship seems to have become non-existent.
At the beginning, like in most relationships, there was more than enough to keep any man satisfied. As time drew on it became less and less frequent to the point of once ever 1-2 weeks.
We do live together and have for some time now. So I don't think it is an issue of not having enough time or not seeing one another often enough.
My s/o has a lot going on in there life right now and I know it causes issues in the relationship as your mind can be somewhere else.
After discussing this with my s/o I was told that there was little to no desire to be physical at this point in time (referring to the relationship, not that exact moment in time).
Its not to say that when the urge is there that we don't get physical, but for my s/o the urge seems to be gone where it was very much there before.
Does anyone have any suggestions as to what I should do here? I don't want to force her into a situation where she doesn't feel comfortable or is feeling forced to do something to keep me happy. With the way things have been going it has been hard to feel close to her in the relationship with the lack of physical affection.
Looking for some quality advice, please keep it serious.
Thanks.
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