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^ this exactly,
single mom dude,
a) why the hell are you living with her and her child? shame on her for moving in so quickly, its toxic to the child to see a different father figure every 6 months.
b) you are stable, im sure you pay half the bills or more. More than anything il bet your making her life WAY easier by just being there, she probably doesnt have chemistry towards you, she isnt sure what to do because on the one hand, you are helping her with everything, but she doesnt feel it for you,
so does she end it and walk away? meaning life would be more difficult financially for her and her kid,
or does she stick it out with you, have sex with you once in a while to keep you at bay, for the security and sake of her child?,
id think long and hard before you go any further down this road.
also, god forbid you commonlaw with her without a pre-nup, if you guys seperate later down the road, she can get you for child support eventhough its not even your kid.
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