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Originally Posted by El Bastardo
The following is a reply from the anonymous member
Can you reply with this to my prom thread please:
I'm a guy, and I have already tried to "get with" a girl for prom and what not, but it didn't go very well because she's REALLY religious and all I guess... But, the thing with that is that it hurts, knowing that i've failed with her and she just moves on to others like its nothing and I think that there is a VERY SLIGHT possibility that that could get in my way of enjoying prom even 6 months later. Anyhow, thats not the point, its just... I don't know first of all my school is filled with beef, and since I am pretty socially awkward it would be even weirder for me to even go find a table to sit at. You guys are right though, its pretty boring unless you're high or drunk taking from the grad dinner... All you do is talk to people and stuff, and dance, but I'm not really good at dancing so I just skip that so the only option left is to "mingle" 
Call me weird, but I am not really used to this "partying" and stuff, I went to the grad dinner got fked out of my mind, and didn't remember anything that happened at all but I don't think it should be like that.......
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i think you are making the whole dateless thing a bigger deal than it should be. I think this depends on the culture of your grad class and school but the majority of my grad class went dateless and it was fun. The after party was definitely memorable.
Look at it this way, if you have to ask if you are gonna have regrets, you probably will. If you had a good time, great. If you didn't have a good time, no big deal you probably won't remember the details. Actually if you had a great time and got shitfaced you wont remember the details either...they'll just flood your facebook wall the next day.
I understand there's usually beef whatever and can be difficulty to choose which table to sit at....if you are a girl. You don't need to be good at dancing....unless they have the lights on and it's fucking ballroom dancing. If you feel awkward dancing..just predrink a little.
If you admit to being socially awkward...why not try to break out your shell now before you meet other people the rest of your lives?