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Originally Posted by Lamboda
Here's the lowdown from my POV. I think you need to get yourself straightened out. Bro, you don't mess with another's girlfriend. Also you don't cheat on your girlfriend. These are unspoken rules that I endorse personally and my POV is based upon it that's just a word of caution.
Buddy, if you really like this girl then by all means go for it. But don't step one foot in and one foot out. If you are going for her, you give it 100%. Break up with your current girlfriend now and go for her. Like everyone else said, it's not fair to your girlfriend. However, if you don't break up and stop seeing this girl the fact still stands as you cheated on her.
You yourself are second guessing her true intent so really how far can you trust this girl? She cheated on her boyfriend who's to say she won't do it to you too? She said she misses you but she won't break up with her boyfriend? How stable is she?
From what you are saying I interpret that you indeed want to go for this girl but because you are unsure if she actually likes you and will breakup with her boyfriend, you choose to stay with your girlfriend until it's 100% that you can have this girl.
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+1. Agree 100%. Make it up your mind about which girl you wanna have a long term relationship with. -sounds like a heart to heart talk is needed between you and this lady friend of yours. Set the record straight. Let her know that you like her. If she really wants to be with you, she'll follow her heart and dump her boyfriend.
If she says "No" and stays with the boyfriend, it sounds like a movie to me. Friends with Benefits.