[freakshow]

break up with your current gf, cause you're a jerk and she deserves better.

then you can freely go out with the girl you're chasing (she'll break up with her bf, cause its already rocky), and you guys can go on and off and mess around for a few years, then break up because long distance is too hard. then you will have wasted a good few years of both your lives, and you can start looking for someone to 'settle down' with, except all the good ones will be gone by then, and you'll realize that you really shouldnt have been unfaithful in the first place, and that love is a choice you make, not a emotion you feel.