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46_valentinor · 03-21-2012, 10:58 PM

has the meaning of a true, good friend lost its meaning in the last couple years. speaking to an audience made up of generally males here, is it because of our egos that made us more unaware and unwilling to be aware of the people around us. im not sure if its because of my age at only 21 or i was expecting too much from the people i once thought were real friends, it seems like "friends" these days are only still together because of the fun factor. when a problem arises, they don't want to get involved and try their very best to have nothing to do with it.

i hung out with a pretty tight group during high school and even after we graduated we all still consistently and very commonly went to each others house to chill. until last year, well for me anyways. i always thought to myself that these guys were awesome friends, the people who i can rely on when life takes a shit on you or when you have no where to go. i had a very immature, stupid argument over bbm, an argument that i thought was just a joke, turned out to be something a lot more serious then i thought to the other party. i didn't know since joking around was such a common occurrence between all of us!! anyways to get to the point, i left the country in the next couple days for vacation and when i came back 2 months later, everyone stopped contacting me. they know im alive and back in vancouver but they just decided to stop calling me out.

now in my pov, the rest of the group doesn't want any problems between me and the friend who i had an argument with, so instead of help solving the problem, they just simply rule me out.
why.
i did my part to try and solve it but thats not the point, the point is why THEY didnt do their part and say, "you know what, fuck the both of you. you guys are close friends now go solve this stupid as shit before talking to any of us, because you TWO fucked up." when they notice that it wasn't working out. maybe its just me, but if i was a bystander to a situation like this, i would definitely directly say it because they are both blinded by their own egos and stupidity and also because im a goddamn fuken friend.

i haven't seen them for a whole damn year...its fuken lonely and it fuken hurts especially when i sign onto facebook and see a bunch of pictures of them all hanging out and having fun... but at the same time, i don't feel sorry for this situation anymore because i learned its just not worth it.

sorry for my rant, i just wanted to get this off my chest as this has always been occupying my mind.

03-21-2012, 10:58 PM	#1
46_valentinor I Will not Admit my Addiction to RS Join Date: Jul 2008 Location: Vancouver Posts: 561 Thanked 250 Times in 88 Posts Failed 24 Times in 7 Posts	A friend. has the meaning of a true, good friend lost its meaning in the last couple years. speaking to an audience made up of generally males here, is it because of our egos that made us more unaware and unwilling to be aware of the people around us. im not sure if its because of my age at only 21 or i was expecting too much from the people i once thought were real friends, it seems like "friends" these days are only still together because of the fun factor. when a problem arises, they don't want to get involved and try their very best to have nothing to do with it. i hung out with a pretty tight group during high school and even after we graduated we all still consistently and very commonly went to each others house to chill. until last year, well for me anyways. i always thought to myself that these guys were awesome friends, the people who i can rely on when life takes a shit on you or when you have no where to go. i had a very immature, stupid argument over bbm, an argument that i thought was just a joke, turned out to be something a lot more serious then i thought to the other party. i didn't know since joking around was such a common occurrence between all of us!! anyways to get to the point, i left the country in the next couple days for vacation and when i came back 2 months later, everyone stopped contacting me. they know im alive and back in vancouver but they just decided to stop calling me out. now in my pov, the rest of the group doesn't want any problems between me and the friend who i had an argument with, so instead of help solving the problem, they just simply rule me out. why. i did my part to try and solve it but thats not the point, the point is why THEY didnt do their part and say, "you know what, fuck the both of you. you guys are close friends now go solve this stupid as shit before talking to any of us, because you TWO fucked up." when they notice that it wasn't working out. maybe its just me, but if i was a bystander to a situation like this, i would definitely directly say it because they are both blinded by their own egos and stupidity and also because im a goddamn fuken friend. i haven't seen them for a whole damn year...its fuken lonely and it fuken hurts especially when i sign onto facebook and see a bunch of pictures of them all hanging out and having fun... but at the same time, i don't feel sorry for this situation anymore because i learned its just not worth it. sorry for my rant, i just wanted to get this off my chest as this has always been occupying my mind.