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Originally Posted by GGnoRE
The girl your fucking has no value. Both of guys were feeling bored in your long-term relationships and craved something else. Mix that with alcohol and you are both cheating on your partners.
Whats the right thing to do?
Stop messing with the fuckbuddy, confess to your current gf and pray to god that she forgives you.
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I could go either way. Really, confessing to the gf really puts it into her hands to make the big decision. You are almost manning up in confessing, but doing the cowards move of making her hurt because of it and dumping your sorry ass.
First, he needs to decide if he wants to maintain his current relationship. If so, he needs to cut contact with the other girl and focus in on his relationship. If he is strong on that and devotes to his relationship, will her knowing what he's done make that a stronger relationship?
I tend to look at that level of confession being " I feel better now that you know, and you feel worse that you do"
That said, I would hate to be the person kept in the dark.
First, he needs to decide what he wants to do. I suspect, as I so bluntly put before, that he wants the other girl to come running up and make his decision for him by saying she'll be there when he's out of his relationship.
Or permission to just fuck her.
I think he's toxic for all involved and needs to end everything, take a little time and start fresh. Right now, no matter what he does, he's a douchebag. Guess that's what happens when you do douchey things to people.