[Ulic Qel-Droma]

YOU GUYS ARE AWESOME. (actually just you, i could care less about her haha).

ok first things first.

in the mood for love.

you can treat it like it is, just this thing you got on the side. a little exciting dangerous relationship. and just keep it at that.

second you can ask her straight up, if you guys feel you're better for each other, just go for it (but personally i wouldn't).

what do YOU want?

you want her dont you. u wanna fuck that pussy so bad. im surprised you havent already (or have you? you said she came over, but what'd you do? just make out and cuddle? did you fuck?).

i say just keep going and doing what you two are doing, dont TRY to further anything by asking or initiating questions. just go with the flow.

you felt it was the right time to penetrate her face with your tongue and it just slid in there naturally.

next time maybe your fingers or dick. as long as it feels right, and you two "agree" without words. whatever.

out of sight out of mind. have your fun.

the idea of loyalty is an ILLUSION.

the idea of not wanting your significant other to fuck other people is an ILLUSION.
it's egotistical.
it's possessive.

in reality that shit doesnt matter. more people are "disloyal" than loyal.
out of sight out of mind man.

realise it's just some intrinsic egotistical possessive value that all humans have, because we're fucked in the head.

if you found out she had a similar thing going on the side, would you feel bad?

what if you found out before you started this?

there's a difference isnt there? well guess what, there shouldnt be a difference.
just cuz you did bad, doesnt mean if she does bad, you shouldnt feel it less.

its all the same from the beginning.

obviously none of the people in this thread have been in a lot of relationships or multiple relationships at the same time. or are considered "players".

yeah, once a cheat, always a cheat. but we're all cheats.
this honor of being loyal is just some figment of their imagination that they want to hold to themselves, cuz it somehow makes them feel better.

they're egotistical. if they found out their significant other fucked up and kissed another person, or held another persons hand.. or dear lord, no... fucked another person.
they'd mother fucking flip the fuck out, and probably dump them and try to kill the other person.

man, the truth is, just whatever. it's just sex. everyone fucks up, everyone has urges. sometimes everything just falls in place.
you're drunk
the mood is right.
she's super hot
you have past history together.
you havent had sex for months
you havent jerked off for weeks.
shes licking her lips and staring you in the eye and playing with her hair and champagne glass
your dick is rock hard and rubbing against that soft silk underwear of yours lol

all the stars aligned. you cant blame yourself.

like i said just treat this as dessert. keep eating it, cuz it tastes good. and just go with the flow.

if she one day just vanishes and never shows up and never contacts you again, dont feel down. it is what it is.

this small relationship is a book. all books have their good chapters and bad chapters.
value the good chapters. and when the book is over, remember those good chapters. and that's all.

there will be PLENTY of other books. value each book for what it was worth, and remember the good chapters.

on the flipside, if your GF finds out and dumps you, don't go crying to anyone.
this is the risk you were willing to take. and like i said, remember the good chapters from that relationship as well.

go read another book. there will always be good books out there. to seek them out you just gotta read enough books.

PS. stop looking for verbal confirmations. just feel. you don't need words. if she's coming back to you and you guys keep doing this. don't make assumptions, dont need verbal confirmation. it's happening. you're doing what you're doing and just take it as that. dont ask for more. dont ask for less.