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Originally Posted by Ulic Qel-Droma
you can just say fuck em and walk off. that's the easy way out.
or both parties can drop their egos and hug it out.
or if they're not willing to.
you can drop your ego and apologize no matter how unapologetic you actually feel.
you'll be the bigger guy and whatever. who cares. the feeling of uneasiness will pass with time.
and yeah, if they're just HS friends lol whatever. like someone posted above...
i realised i was only friends with a lot of HS ppl cuz i saw them everyday, and you're forced to befriend them.
when the real world opens up, you realise you get along better with a lot of other people.
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i used to have absolutely no problem with apologizing, however i may sound like an asshole in the making but after this situation, i don't think i will apologize for stuff that i know i didn't do wrong. the other party can believe they are right, i won't argue about it because its not worth it. i was too easily apologetic in the past, placed everyone else first and myself second. in my head, what mattered the most was the people around me, but i think that has given me an extremely weak, unworthy image.
after this incident, i had to learn how to live independently and pick out the weak point of my life and personality. i have to stand up for myself like what a guy is suppose to do. like i previously said, this incident still hurts and makes me feel miserable at times but i don't feel sorry about it because well......i shouldn't feel sorry about it in the first place and this also made me improve on myself.