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all i gotta say is this to the rest of you:
for you all that disagree with me, and are in "stable long term relationships".
what if you one day found out that your significant other was "cheating" (in whatever way) with someone else?
a fling, an affair, or whatever you can come up with.
you'd be shocked and probably cry your eyeballs out and probably flip the fuck out.
some of you guys would probably cut the significant other out.
or some of you guys would confront her and get all pissy
or confront the guy and get all pissy.
or confront both.
the fact is you guys would be shocked and have this feeling of insecurity and betrayal.
the reason you guys all will have this feeling is because reality did not meet your expectations (a fantasy).
when you realise your expectation was an illusion and it gets shattered, it will hurt.
what if your SO cheated not because they were SEEKING to cheat.
but because the other person was charming and was able to pick them up?
what if the other person was a person like me? or the OP?
just a guy with a gf (or more), but at the time it felt right and somehow both parties were able to seduce and charm each other just enough to slip into the cheating zone.
what if when your SO found out you knew was horribly sorry and realised she loved you more. what if she cut that "other" person out of her life?
don't lie to yourself and the entire revscene saying you'd never cheat. you don't know that. and to assume that would be foolish. everyone has desire, everyone is able to be charmed. you guys just havent met the person of the opposite sex (or same sex if u swing that way), that had the skill to charm you. everyone has a price (or charming point).
so... are you guys going to forgive your SO, or tell them to fuck off and cut them off?
for all of you that choose to break up. you guys are retarded.
it's not a chronic problem, everyone slips up and fucks up.
you will be confronted with this dilemma one day as well. and you might "fuck up" too.
get over it. its just sex. it's not like your SO hasnt ever had sex with anyone else ever in their lives. they weren't tainted after those other people, why would they be tainted while you guys were in a relationship?
get over your egos.
if they KEEP falling for other people then you have a problem.
they probably dont love you and will eventually just break it off with you anyway.
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