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Ulic. Yeah, I get the point you are making. To a point, I agree with it. Maybe I'm a cynic as my parent's marriage ended after he came home and said, "Yeah, I've been seeing this woman for 6 months, and I feel like I'm in love for the very first time." Then found out in a rural community, she was practically our neighbor.
So I get both sides, as the next thing that happens is we've lawyered up and suddenly lawyers become tools of hate.
So I get the idea of, everytime this happens do we need to sell off everything we own and pay ridiculous money to lawyers when it happens in so many marriages and all the time and so on.
But here's the deal...if you can't sit this woman down and tell her straight up, I want to open this shit up and at least be honest, then everything becomes lies and justifications. And its not the physical act of sex that really pisses people off. It's the lies! At least for me. You asked, how would I feel if it was happening to me? Ok. I'd give a little shit about the fact that she got with someone else, but WAY pissed when I thought about what lies she would have to tell me to buy her time to fuck, and whatever other deceptions to keep everything to herself.
That's the part that pissed me off with my father. It wasn't the act of sex. It was the fact that he turned into a douche and was lying to fucking everyone! It was the fact that as a result of his lies, everyone in our community felt they had to stay out of it so they continued his lies. Then he has his epiphany that living with the fat bowl cut broad in the trailer is the way to go and you just sit there and realize how stupid everyone was to what was actually happening.
I can't remember exactly, but I believe you have alluded to having ladies on the side here on rs before, yes?
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