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Originally Posted by dinosaur

^ noted. so...all I have to do is tell you before I go out and we be cool? and ya know...since monogamy and loyalty is an illusion and you have agreed...its really not my fault?

damn. this weekend is going to be FUN!

I think relationships should be open and honest. Right now you're making decisions for your current girlfriend: everyone should know about what's going on and left to make their own decisions. You know what's going, your having fun. Your girl no.2 knows what's on, and she's having fun. You're currently girlfriend? Not so much. If everything was out in the open, and things fall into place, I believe that's the strongest way to build relationships. The most likely scenario is that she'll break up with you . That's the consequence of trying out a new relationship. But who knows? Maybe she's in the same situation. Or maybe you're important enough to her that she'll wait. You won't know unless you let her make that decision. But she doesn't have that right right now because your pussy'ing up and not telling her the truth. You're out trying to pick up other girls because you can't man up and tell her that you can't make up your mind. Make choices. Accept and embrace the consequences. With great risk comes great reward, no? You're risking a stable relationship for this new girl- she better be worth it then, right?