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I dunno Ulic, i see where you are coming from as monogomy = fantasy part but ultimately trust in a relationship is extremely important (at least for me). If two people are in committed long-term relationships just don't fuck around a slip up, it isn't hard to do. It is not like these people slip and fall naked on others, its a deliberate action. If he/she is cheating on you it speaks more to the problems within the couple.
They way you frame it to the OP is that it just societal pressure that is making him guilty of his actions, but really the first replies were putting into consideration his current gf's feelings. Sure you can think of commitment as egotistical or a forced social construct, but in reality one person is going to be extremely hurt as a result because they have a concept of a committed relationship that I would argue most people have.
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