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Originally Posted by Ri2
she likes the attention. i dont know any girl who says "hey lets go have a whiskey together" more like "hey we should have drinks sometime". i feel like she wants to convey the idea that she's not some regular girly girl and she's a bit of a badass so to initiate your interest and now that you are, she's pulling back cuz she gets off on the power trip.
i would bet you money that when she got your text she talked to her friends about it going "omg.... so this guy in my class, totes asked me to have a drink with him!! wtf!!"
you don't want to date someone who plays mind games. real women don't have to do that.
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If I can add to your spot-on post:
If not that, I think some girls play games to initiate your interest because they like the feeling of being pursued (even if the person pursuing isn't of any interest of theirs at all).
I've always surmised that it's an image thing. It makes them look good (and probably feels good) to have active suitors chasing them.