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Ok, I've already jumped in to this thread and shared my POV...this is more in regato Noir and some of the dudes who have responded here and in others like it:
If guys don't fuck...they don't die. Don't get me wrong, sex is important in a relationship (I could like a broken record), but some of the thoughts and feeling that you guys have about blowin' you load, is a little funny...but kind of sad. You speak about think it is food and water. I dig that some of you are hovering in you 20 yo batter-brain boner phase right now, but I can promise you that should you not have sex ever...starting today...you wiil be just fine. It will suck...it may hurt a little...lose some sleep...but you will not die.
Point being? This mentality that if the SO or whomever does not put out, the dude will "crack" and fuck a cheerleading squad, is bull shit. You will not have this "need to fuck anything that walks" feeling forever.
Having no sex drive...or simply not wanting to engage is sex with you SO, is rarely ever about sex.
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