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Originally Posted by doritos
that all sounds reasonable except, can't judge her like that of other girls...i know her past and shes not in any position to date anyone, that is one of the reasons why we broke up too. We both care for each other just now, things have become odd. She tells me this and that we are over but if I bring up the subject, she will snap on me and tell me not to say anything. Its very difficult talking to this woman. How can I reason with someone with their head up so high. I know the easy way out would just leave it alone and walk away but I am not one to give up. Went through it all in the past and there have been regrets. I just need some kind of solution on how to deal with this without all the drama.
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bottom line, if they're not with you it's because they don't want to be.
you make it drama filled and complicated because you want to believe there is more. we make excuses for people we "love" because we hope like hell they won't hurt us. we delude ourselves then act surprised when we get heartbroken.
to her, you're just a personal masseuse and ego stroker who doesn't even get benefits so you are convenient.
know your worth man.