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Originally Posted by dinosaur
Ok, I've already jumped in to this thread and shared my POV...this is more in regato Noir and some of the dudes who have responded here and in others like it:
If guys don't fuck...they don't die. Don't get me wrong, sex is important in a relationship (I could like a broken record), but some of the thoughts and feeling that you guys have about blowin' you load, is a little funny...but kind of sad. You speak about think it is food and water. I dig that some of you are hovering in you 20 yo batter-brain boner phase right now, but I can promise you that should you not have sex ever...starting today...you wiil be just fine. It will suck...it may hurt a little...lose some sleep...but you will not die.
Point being? This mentality that if the SO or whomever does not put out, the dude will "crack" and fuck a cheerleading squad, is bull shit. You will not have this "need to fuck anything that walks" feeling forever.
Having no sex drive...or simply not wanting to engage is sex with you SO, is rarely ever about sex.
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Vmec is that you?
I hate to make it sound so elementary but.... you're a girl. Of course you're going to think this way.
But let me just burst that bubble. You don't know how us guys work, you can't relate how us guys feel, and most importantly, you don't know what's best for us. Yet you sound firmly like you fall into the category of the girls that think they do.
TBH, I don't really think highly of the opinions you pimp out. And those are: the opinions and advices that is based on the textbook societal moral compass.
It's so easy, everyone knows it, and they're shallow. It shows a lack of thought and understanding because despite being the traditional concepts being and widely understood and accepted... why are they rarely followed? Why is it so hard to follow the rules?
Why? because it doesn't take into account the humanistic variables that plays so much importance. You think you get us? That little blurb you just quickly wrote shows how little you actually understand.
(BTW, I'm not taking a shot at you personally. you probably may be a nice person. But I am taking a shot at your "conservative" opinions")