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Originally Posted by El Bastardo
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I do understand what you are saying but I am sexual driven as a person so it is not the most important thing. I'm sure if I was deprived completely I may have those thoughts but I will not be in a relationship with someone and go outside of the relationship to fill my needs.
If I feel that it is that important to me I would not be in the relationship to begin with.
It is not like I am being deprived completely, just a drop in frequency and its bothersome as I apparently have a high sex drive (which is made more so by the fact that she is ABSOLUTELY STUNNING!!)
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My understanding from you is that the reason why the drop of frequency is such a concern because you think it
might be a continuing trend.
Because I assume that once a relationship passes its honeymoon phase and starts to settle, and the natural drop in sexual frequency is within your tolerable levels, I don't see why you would be concerned.
Yet here you are. no?
Oh and BTW, you don't have a high sex drive. You're just a man and pardon the french but we're all horndogs. It's just that... some hide it better than others, or some are ashamed of it and deny that it's all a part of us. Or maybe just like women, society & culture has it engrained in our heads to not to admit we're highly sexual creatures. edit: or that the acceptance that we're highly sexually charged beings is an admittance that we're primitive and uncivilized.