Lol go clubbing and partying with friends. Mixed group of guys and girls. Get them to intro you to their friends. Get their number and try to make things click from there of you say you have charm. then step it up and do it to strangers, if things don't work out or you don't like them then move on. Just need to get the ball rolling and things get easier and you learn to let go easier. Thats pretty much all there to partying besides to have fun and that's what ive been doing and works great for me.. As for dating sites,
Good luck...?