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Originally Posted by El Bastardo
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A little background on me, I'm a 20 year old university student and mentally Im a virgin. What I mean by that is that I have had sex about 20-25 times but every time it was with an escort I paid anywhere from $120 to $250 for. Im really tired of this and cant do it anymore. It all started when my gf broke up with me about 2 years ago (we never had sex and we went out for months) and after that I started going on sketchy foreveralone forums and it just went down from there. Then I started seeing escorts. I dont have any troubles talking to women, I just dont have the charm to ever get them in bed. My commute is about 1.5 hours each way to school so its harder to find anyone because I dont live on residence.
Im not sure what to do, i've tried clubbing, bars, girls in my classes but i cant get anything. IT sounds like I dont have confidence but In reality I do and can make girls laugh pretty often.
I guess I just need advice on how to get more game, i even opened up a POF account and probably sent over 1000 messages and never got any responses or got rejected a few replies later. I've even thought about getting chem. castrated so I wouldn't have to think about women and just focus on school and work, and lately its becoming a good possibility.
Any help is appreciated
Thanks
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1. Get a job
2. Study smart, not hard
3. Join some clubs
4. Make some friends
5. Work out -> key. The idea is not get jacked and huge, the idea is to get fit.
6. Run, and get into the habit of running often.
7. Get off facebook, (and RS), anything social media, limit it.
8. At every opportunity to hang out with friends do it. Thats the best way to meet mutual people so you don't seem creepy.
9. Go shopping with a fashion friend that actually knows fashion and get them to pick you out a new warddrobe.
10. Get a haircut from a good stylist, gay guys actually make great haircuts.
12. Get into some cool hobbies that you are actually into. (No video games though)
13. Get contacts if you have glasses.
14. Ramp up your hygenie to tip top shape.
15. Move out if you haven't yet. If its not possible, then do it ASAP.
16.
Read "No more Mr. Nice guy" http://www.nomoremrniceguy.com/
17. Thank my post. (optional)
