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Tough love time.
I can smell your desperation from here. Women, who actually have an active interest in sensing desperation can catch the whiff a mile away.
You need to, today, stop trying to get your 20 year old ass laid.
Instead, you need to start working to get your 22 year old ass laid.
Let's get the basics out of the way here. This ain't a make-over question, "what can i do to make myself more appealing to women?" I'm sure there are things you can do to make yourself more attractive, but we need to solve some base items here.
You sir, have an addiction. I don't know you, so everything here on in is an educated guess.
I think you are addicted to sex. If you approach women with the #1 goal of them being there to fuck, that's a problem. You are now used to the transaction of sex, and treat this system like a way to save $200 when you get laid.
Even the sluttiest of women need to be a little wined and dined man!
You need to start getting your mind around the idea that you may have a problem here that you can't solve alone. Dousing yourself in Axe is NOT going to solve the issue that you don't respect yourself, or women.
Going on. I'm going to say this, and I don't mean it in the insulting way, but you are a loser. If you have sent out 1000 messages on POF, and not had ONE SINGLE REPLY-then you are doing something wrong. I used to troll a bit on POF and its not that hard.
Sample dialogue: "Hi, I'm Gridlock! Did it hurt?"
Lady, "did what hurt?"
"Oh! when you fell from heaven. Man, I can't believe women still fall for that! But you did. That means you like cheezy jokes, and I'm full of them..."
Then just continue on.
That's just one thing, but if you want people's help here, you need to be honest with us.
Why are you a loser?
What are 1000 women online, and 100's in class and bars and restaurants and working at the grocery store seeing that YOU aren't?
Be honest...Are you:
fat?
ugly?
dress poorly?
poor personal hygiene?
broke?
no confidence?
I'm going to assume you were bullied in school.
Here's the deal though. You can change it.
I can name tons of people that go through life as a loser and do nothing to change it. They end up drinking and alone, thinking, fuck, if only I had done something when I was 20.
Sorry to be harsh, but be honest so we can help.
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