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Old 03-29-2012, 11:08 AM   #22
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I fail because a) those are some large assumptions, and b) this is so not a matter of what type of women he's "targetting".

Sorry, yes it is. THE WOMEN HE'S TARGETING ARE FUCKING HOOKERS!

He lost his virginity to a hooker. He went on to screw 25 more.

Guys: all that are here. This isn't a clothes issue. This isn't a money, looks, confidence or anything issue...YET. All of those things are icing on a cake of fucked up issues that he'll eventually need to address.

BUT FIRST...EVERYONE SAY IT WITH ME NOW...

HE
FUCKS
PROSTITUTES!

He has done NOTHING but fuck hookers. How do you resolve, in your head that I no longer get to call up a hot woman, give her money and have her play whatever game I want her to play, and always win. Why? Because you pay her to let you win. Want to be hard to get? Sure. Want to be rough tonight? Sure. Hey, I've got an extra 50...I'm gonna stick it in your ass. Make it 75 honey.

NOTHING about that translates to a healthy, normal relationship. Nothing.

So he needs to get past the whole hooker ADDICTION first. Then get over whatever happened to get him there in the fisrt place next. Then the sex addiction. Then he can start working on meeting people. Then he can actually think about meeting a woman. Then he can sit her down and say, "yeah, you are my first amateur"

And be in the same boat. Because she'll leave.

None of this involves better clothes.

All of this involves therapy.
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