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OP try not to always be the nice guy. Never EVER give a girl a compliment in a club, especially as the first thing you say. That only makes you look like 1) You're trying to get in her pants 2) you're drunk off your ass and just being a horny dog (Which brings us back to #1).

Learn to playfully make fun of girls, get to know them a bit, act interested in what they talk about, ask questions, then compliment/number exchange. Not many girls casually have sex with guys they meet randomly (unless intoxicated), life isn't a porno. You're not gonna be driving along highway 1 one day, when you see a 10/10 blond in a short skirt and high heels with a flat tire on her 2010 335i, and you being the chivalrist man you are, go and change her spare tire for her. And she doesn't have any means of paying you back so you end up in some pseudo barter based business relationship in which she has sex with you on the side of the road as a means of repayment for you fixing her flat tire. It doesn't work like that.


Anyways .. start going to the gym, start lifting some weights, get your testosterone and confidence up. If you still can't get anything out of it, at least the escorts won't cringe when your 130lb pale skinny fat body walks through the door.

Getting laid isn't the end all be all. I'm pretty sure you feel pretty cold + worse than you did before going to the escort. Learn to control your emotions and your mind. Have some discipline with yourself, become something, be a man .. maybe fall in love .. maybe fill that void and need for gratification you have with a relationship. Maybe spend the money you spend on escorts on a nice girl and taking her out to dinners ..

Be real with yourself. You need to meet a certain physical criteria to be one of those guys that gets with random chicks all the time. If you have a 5/10 face you can make up for it with a 8/10 body.