If youre 19 and your mom is still concerned about you being a "bad kid" just move out like alpha said or make her happy and prove to her youre more responsible.
my mom was like that too back when i was in high school. I went through blonde hair, heavy make up, alcohol & drugs phase. She used to be anal about everything and didnt let me out after 9 because she thought i was doing stupid shit (especially after seeing one of my friends with heatscore sleev tattoo). I wanted to prove to her i was more responsible than that so i studied, got into ubc, and made her happy. Now she doesnt give a fuck whether i go out at 3pm or 3am. I told her she can call me any time to check whether im really with my friends or not and she did first couple of times. Now she doesnt anymore. Whether its getting into good school or whatever, make her happy and earn her trust.
And as for your friends, u just gotta find a new crew. My highschool girl friends all had controlling bfs and didnt go clubbing. At ubc i met knew friends (and got closer with girl whom i went to HS with) with similar interestS and we click way better. HOW do i find these ppl is the tough part. Ive met ppl from house parties to revscene meets. Joined all girls club etc. Try to get involved with lots of stuff. Volunteering is a good place to meet ppl too (at times).
GL OP
