rather than starting a new thread, i wanted to bring this old one back up.
from the comments that i'm seeing, it seems like the majority agree that waiting it out and not confessing is the way to go. a few of you have mentioned this, but at what point would you confess to get away from the "friendzone". what if the girl has an attraction towards you and waiting for you to confess, but because it took too long, they now start to lose interest.
i'm asking because i'm confused and i'm sort of in a similar situation.
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Originally Posted by Noir
I still say no (to the just do it):
Good story, congrats on the happy ending but you guys had this going on:
1. You found him attractive to begin with (which leads to #2)
2. You like his company
3. You've already bonded over common interests
4. You've spent platonic time together (just alone - you two)
5. You guys already communicate to each other one on one on a personal level.
6. The above has allowed you to grow comfort within each other.
7. You guys even reached "joking/flirtation" level.
I think that's just the gist of it, but I don't think the OP has even half that going for him; and will more likely just be burning a bridge too soon.
I'm going to have to agree with Crayon that according to his description so far, it doesn't look good, unless there's some additional info that failed to mention that might change things.
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so far from the above list, the ones bolded is what i know of how she feels about me. there were others things we did so far, such as having dinner alone together. i tease her a lot and make fun of her in a playful way. she doesn't get mad and we both get a good laugh. she compliments me a lot (friendzone?) i was late in asking her to watch a certain movie with me and i said "dang, i wanted to watch that movie with you too" and she replied back by saying that if i can't find anyone else, she would watch it again with me.
originally i planned on asking her to dinner this weekend and confessing, but it seems like everything in this thread is telling me not to. any thoughts?