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Originally Posted by yameen
rather than starting a new thread, i wanted to bring this old one back up.
from the comments that i'm seeing, it seems like the majority agree that waiting it out and not confessing is the way to go. a few of you have mentioned this, but at what point would you confess to get away from the "friendzone". what if the girl has an attraction towards you and waiting for you to confess, but because it took too long, they now start to lose interest.
i'm asking because i'm confused and i'm sort of in a similar situation.
so far from the above list, the ones bolded is what i know of how she feels about me. there were others things we did so far, such as having dinner alone together. i tease her a lot and make fun of her in a playful way. she doesn't get mad and we both get a good laugh. she compliments me a lot (friendzone?) i was late in asking her to watch a certain movie with me and i said "dang, i wanted to watch that movie with you too" and she replied back by saying that if i can't find anyone else, she would watch it again with me.
originally i planned on asking her to dinner this weekend and confessing, but it seems like everything in this thread is telling me not to. any thoughts?
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I never really understand why something so simple is so complicated
Life is short, so why waste it chasing after some girl for years and go no where?.
Get to the point!, be selfish, think for yourself, make yourself happy and stop being miserable every seconds every mins you're not with her and go to bed every damn night wondering if she want to start something with you or not.
I say the next time you find that right moment whether its a drive her home or watching a movie at home, or anywhere where its just the only two of you and pop the question!
Tell her something like "I don't want to regret this later on or for the rest of my life but I just want you to know that I have feeling for you and I want us to be more then friends" or something along those lines but make sure you make it clear to her what you're trying to say.
You either get the answer you dying to hear or you don't.
If you get the answer you been dying to hear then
If you dont get the answer you want then now you can stop wasting your time thinking if things will ever happen between you 2 and move on with your life and hope the next girl is your SO.
Corny as it sounds, but just follow your heart dude. Be honest, be positive, get to the point and keep life simple.