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Originally Posted by Durrann
but that can lead to being friendzoned
wont it?
hows that different from any of her other friends doing that
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this was my mentality. don't want to get friendzoned.
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Originally Posted by Amuro Ray
Here's my story
her and I were already really good friends.
I asked her to see if we can "try" going further into the relationship. I said if she didn't then we can still be awesome friends and I'll just leave it at that.
She agreed.
we've been together for 6 years now.
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thanks amuro, that's actually a very good line to use. i'll ask to see if we can try and if not, then it was never really meant to be to begin with.
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Originally Posted by Presto
Yameen, I've hit those bolded points, before. When it's only those points, then you are in the friendzone. As previous posts have said: when a girl likes you, she makes it obvious. How long have you been going out with her? Does she call you, or are you the one that's always calling her?
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she's a very shy girl in terms of initiating anything. she never calls out people. knowing that, she texts me. it's been about a month and i see her weekly. which is why i'm thinking about using amuro's line to just let it out and see what happens when we have our next dinner. also, i mentioned that she was willing to rewatch a movie with me and she always makes an effort to talk to me when we're around other people.