Originally Posted by epicbeardman
No, what people has said earlier are 100% correct. Give her space. Eventually you will stop giving a shit. Don't completely cut her off also, just once in a while like a photo she posts on facebook or a posts or something. Just to show her you haven't died. And live your life. Hang out with your buddies, go out, trade YugiOh cards or whatever the hell it is you kids do these days, and just enjoy life. If you keep trying to push it, and think you have a shot, you will eventually ruin whatever friendship that still remains.
Eventually you guys will reconcile after some time, give or take a month or two and slowly, readjust back to friends. Maybe not what you had before, but an amicable friendship. And that's it. Just friends. I know since you're young and lack experience in these matters, you're going through a whole bunch of emotions.. "should I? could I? What if? OH GOD IT HURTS." etc, etc. And really there is no way in hell you will believe what I say, but take it to heart, in 10-15 years, after you have lost your v card and had a LT gf, or 2, got your heart broken and stomped on, recovered and got stronger, had a one night stand or two, got a job, finished school, traveled, loved and lost, and generally become this mature, relationship-veteran-person, I want you to pull up this post so you can look back and laugh your ass off at all this. Trust me, you WILL laugh.
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