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I was sort of in the same situation, but I didn't tell the girl that I liked her. I knew her for a couple of months and never pressured her. I believe that something I did wrong was that I had no 'pressure' as in I still had the backbone, but I never really did anything intimate (touching, hugging, etc.) She told me that it was better off to spend my time/money on another girl. That's basically saying no I don't like you as well. So I cut her off for about a month now just to see if we were still friends because before I left, she said we were 'close' friends.
Hence after a month, I called and it was totally awkward. It felt like we were strangers. You know how strangers talk about school and other boring stuff? Yeah, that's how we were talking. Something once so intimate was distorted into something so distant. Now I'm not saying this applies to every girl but from this experience that I've learned is that when people say back off for a couple of months, either you back off for a long time and then come back or you back off for like 3 weeks, not a month.
I'm trying to recover or salvage the relationship we once had and trying to strengthen it some more. It's really going to take a LOT of time and energy to build it to once it was before. And I know I contradict myself because I always say time is valuable, but hear me out. This person means a lot to me. Regardless of rejection or whatever, just her mere presence inspires me. And that means a lot because you can't find these kinds of people in the world who matter this much to you everywhere.
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