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Originally Posted by Lamboda
she said we were 'close' friends.
Hence after a month, I called and it was totally awkward. It felt like we were strangers.
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When you, not you Lamboda but you as in general, get older and have a long term GF/common law spouse/wife your priorities will change. Even people who claim to be your bestest friends in the whole wide world. You life will go on, and their lives will go on.
Whenever I go out with the guys, sure we still have a good time, but quite a bit of time is spent remember all the crazy stuff we did when we were younger. Now they are either married, married with kids, or in serious relationships. We all have careers and most have mortgages to pay.
OP, like I said earlier. You are not a robot and cannot turn off your emotions. But it's not going to do you any good to sit around thinking about what could have/would have/should have been. From time to time, I still think about some of the girls I should have manned up and asked out or made not chickened out and took inititive when the girl hinted they were interested, but then I look at what I have now and I am glad for some of the choices I did make or moves that I didn't make.
Worst case senario, make a shit load of $$$ and go AMP.
They may be going legal in BC soon. *fingers crossed*