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Originally Posted by Nocardia
Honestly, at this point, I think it may be a good idea to stop hanging out for a few months.
It sounds bad but from what i have seen, in the short term you will feel regret from telling her and be a little bitter whenever you meet up and she talks about a date or doing something without you.
After a few months, when your emotions have settled down, its easier to see them as a friend again (although you still like her, the bitterness is much less) and its not painful to see them happy.
Make sense? If she understands your situation then she would understand it.
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I agree with not seeing her for a little while, until you've sorted out yourself. It sounds like you've made it very comfortable for her in the last few years, and the time apart can let her realize her feelings (or further reinforce the lackthereof....) but please focus on yourself during that time.
If she liked you then she
could like you again...that happened with me actually. We were friends, he and I didn't like each other at the same time, we parted ways and didn't keep in touch, but those feelings rekindled later on after we got in touch again.