honestly, i've paid all the times i've been in a relationship or on a date. currently with my gf she's only paid once and she fought me for it LOL honestly i enjoy being able to provide for her , altho its very minimal, i feel good knowing that the $$ im making i can spend on someone i love. It's not that she expects me to pay, cus she always brings her $$ with her, cept i just dont let her