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Lemme tell you a story.
Years ago, when I first moved here, I was having a shit time finding a job. I finally get called into an interview at a fleabag hotel in Langley.
So I'm sitting there talking, and they are grilling me. I'm doing the best I can. They said I lived too far away...told them it wouldn't be a problem. I was too young..told them I'm mature for my age, and here's why. It went on like that for the longest time.
So they give me the job, as some type of trial run. So off I go. And wouldn't you know, any little mistake I made was a fine example of what they were talking about. There was a snow storm, that was to this day the worst I had seen in BC, so I couldn't make it to work, "oh, well we knew this was going to be a problem"
I had talked them into something, but their heart wasn't in it. So every little thing just emphasized their original assumption.
And dude, it's gonna happen to you.
You slip up, and her first thought is. "my ex wouldn't have done that...he's changed"
You are getting yourself involved in drama. I can handle a great amount of stuff when it comes to women...wanna take it slow, that's cool. I just got out of a relationship...that's fine.
But I won't, will not...NO baby...I will never play backup to some douche that you tried to make it work with for 5 goddamned years and still have some type of feelings for.
Hell no.
People looked at my current relationship as being fast...we were dating inside 2 weeks of the end of her 9 year relationship...moved in within 3 months.
Huge difference...there was never a doubt in my mind that it was done, that it was over and there was ZERO drama with the "should I/shouldn't I" bullshit. It was over and done and that was it. So with that, we decided that we had waited long enough...why waste more time.
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