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Damn exact same situation happened to my friend. My friend (who was a girl), went out with a guy who recently broke up after 4 years of dating. He said he was completely over with his ex and that he was ready to move on. My friend eventually found out that he was still keeping close contact with his ex and their relationship was extremely sketchy. In my opinion the guy cheated on my friend; my friend found photos of them going to trip together to the US by themselves -.-.
Here is my advice to you. If the break-up was recent, I would not recommend you to engage in a serious relationship with her anytime soon. Keep your distance, and make sure that she has enough room to decide on her own. If she ends up going back to her ex, that was probably the way it was bound to go down anyways. Spend enough time with her and wait until she is completely done with her ex. As you can tell 5 years is a not a short time (1825 days she would have spent dating him). Unless the guy did some terrible shit to breakup with her, it's pretty clear that he still has a good amount of territory inside her mind.
Don't make yourself a victim to a rebound.
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