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Originally Posted by rsx
Plenty of other chicks there, she doesn't deserve you if she has to choose. It should be an automatic yes or no.
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I disagree, I don't blame the girl for having some baggage and confusion after a relatively recent split from a 5 year relationship. In fact it'd throw up red flags if she didn't IMO. You'll lose out on so many opportunities if you think she doesn't deserve you over some left over feelings she may or may not have for her ex, but I totally agree with other posts that you shouldn't force her, and definitely don't give her any ultimatum BS.
If I were to put myself in her shoes I would have similar feelings of should've, would've, could've, second thoughts, etc. especially if I had invested 5 years of dedication into it. Moving on is never easy, and even though she hasn't committed to you fully at least she has shown significant interest. I really respect that she is open to you somewhat about her frustration, I know a lot of immature girls who would be conceited over shit like that.
I certainly don't think this relationship will be cursed from the start if it does work out in your favour, my current relationship of 2 years started with a lot of baggage from her side for months, ultimately it doesn't make a difference in the long run. If you can't overlook or have the patience to deal with her shit you are the one that doesn't deserve her.