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happened to me. I have to say I felt pretty bad/hurt afterwards. IMO don't invite me at all, if not to both. Loads of old friends from high school were at reception too. They all asked if i was attending the dinner after. All the while I just said "uh, no, I wasn't invited"
fuck that stung. My wife told me "don't go", I should have listened.
I understand the financial costs involved, but seriously, either do it all the way or not at all.
worst part is I knew both Bride and Groom from way back.
this was almost a decade ago but it still hurts, not to mention the feeling of embarrassment (my perception). I can't even look at them the same any more.
Many other friends have not invited me to their weddings and thats perfectly fine. I have no Issues.
Just make up and excuse to refuse and wish them well.
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