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Originally Posted by yameen
that was a gamble on your part though. imagine that he did change and that he didn't cheat on your girl again, then you two wouldn't have been together. i almost feel that if you didn't break up with her and continued to stay by her side, she would eventually see the difference between you and her ex. however, as a few have mentioned, she may have residual feelings and it may be rocky at first, but good can come out of it. in your situation though, you took a gamble and won. lucky that guy was a douche and cheated again.
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It wasn't much of a gamble. We all went to high school together, so I knew what he was like.
The fact that it may be rocky at first just makes it far less appealing. The best part of a relationship is the first ~6 months when it's all fun and no stress. Why throw away the good times in a relationship ?
If you're going to "fight for her," at the very least tell her that you don't want her to have anything to do with her ex. You'll find out really quick if the relationship was already dead or not.