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Old 04-26-2012, 11:53 AM   #1
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[Confidential] How to deal with sister problems

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I've had some drama in the relationship with my younger sister, mainly with the way she has been acting. She would go out with these guys who are total dicks that would be rude, disrespect and take advantage of my family. I've tried to talk to her, but it seems each time i push her further away. I have always tried to be as reasonable and calm as i can be when talking to her, but that doesnt really seem to help.

As i was talking to my older sister last night (who doesnt live here) i found out that my younger sister invited her and her husband to their upcoming wedding in the summer. I was kinda hurt that I wasn't invited, but then again it wasn't a formal invite - just a verbal one. It didn't really surprise me that much though because she didnt even tell me she was engaged, I found out by noticing a ring on her finger one day.

Its weird that the last few years me and my younger sister have been further and further apart, but me and my older sister have been closer, chatting more, etc. She told me the reason my younger sister and her last bf broke up was because she was selling her services off of CL

When I told my wife she was so emotional about it, but for some reason I didn't really have much a reaction. She is surprised i dont really feel much about it, but that i should take some action, because she thinks something is fundamentally wrong with her, not just with this latest news, but other things as well.

what would you guys do?
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