[miss_crayon]

Wow, this post hits really close to home. I'm actually a bit scared at how relatable I am to this. LOL

But in all seriousness, I am in the same boat...however this is with my Older sister. My parents have 3 of us kids, the older sister whom I'll name K, myself and my younger brother. My brother and I are SUPER close but we are very distant to K; maybe me moreso than my brother. K is very immature and very selfish which has led to a lot of stress and emotional damage to my family. Just like your younger sister, she goes out with the wrong guys and has a lot of issues as she was battling a divorce ontop of having my niece..and other problems that I rather not get into.

My family has taken on the burden of K's problems and even though my parents still feel optimistic..I have cut her out of my life completely. I don't talk to her unless i have to (I think I've only said 3 sentences her in the past year) nor do I say she's my "sister" unless I have to.

I'm not surprised she would pull such a move on you (by not inviting you to her wedding) but lets face it...deep down you expected it and the way you're feeling is how I'd feel. Don't really care.

People can argue with me and say "she's your sister! YOURE FAMILY" and shit like that...but if they haven't truly been in our situation they'll never know how it feels. I've toyed with the thought that "hey..she's just had a divorce..cut her some slack" but if I really think about it..she's been like this her whole life. Sometimes we can't help the way people are...we just have to accept it and carry on.

As of right now, I think you have to ask the question..is it worth it? Do you think your relationship is still salvagable and will it actually get better?