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I'll be honest with you. There's no getting around it and 2 weeks is really nothing for something you've had for over 2 years. For a relationship that long, it could take months. For a relationship that has a lot of sentiment and emotional value to you, it could take half a year or more.
All this crap about keeping yourself pre-occupied are all BS advices. The grieving period of losing something so intrinsically significant isn't something you should be resorting to "band-aid solution" anyways. It's something you should just tough out and go through it like a man. Yes for a while, you're going to look emo. You probably won't feel like a man. You'll be hella disappointed in yourself and you'll be wallowing in your self pity a lot, but I'll tell ya, the strongest of us men has endured where you are at today. Don't feel ashamed of yourself when your down.
Gotta endure these times so you have more appreciation when the time comes life finally throws you a bone or two; and it will. It's a life lesson. Hang in there and learn well.
Last edited by Noir; 04-27-2012 at 05:47 AM.
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