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Originally Posted by melloman
Disagree with Noir. Stay busy, and it'll keep your mind off of her. Eventually you'll realize how much fun your having..
Honestly she doesn't sound like she loves you if she wasn't willing to wait for you. If she did then she would crossed the fucking ocean in a paddle boat for you. Don't feel regret, if she didn't talk to YOU, it's not your fault. Why do you need to EXPLAIN your actions? If she had a problem about it, she should've told you. Simple.
Get out, have fun with friends, party, just don't go too overboard. 
And definately get out there where you can feel APPRECIATED by some other good looking women.  |
I'm actually more with Noir on this one. Unless your friends are all single and don't have other things going on in their lives, partying and drinking it off is hardly a feasible solution. And in my experience, women can smell hurt and a lack of confidence a mile away. If you're in the dumps emotionally, no woman will want to talk to you as it'll be all over your face, your body language, etc.
You need to get the mourning out of your system and gradually get your confidence back through various self-directed activities. Working out is fine, but try to focus at work too. And if you want something out of left field - try yoga (seriously.)