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Originally Posted by El Bastardo
The following is a reply from the anonymous member
To be honest, I don't want to just throw it all away with out giving a fight...
I know it takes 2 people to make a relationship.. but if one person is rocky or cant pull things together.. isnt the other person suppose to support/try to work it out for them? (Take 2 people to work, but sometimes one person needs to be stronger to make things work right?) ... Am I crazy for thinking/feeling like this...
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Excuse me if this is harsh, again. But going back to the "teeter-totter" metaphor. She hopped off her side already. At this point, no matter how much you jump and jump, you're just gonna land on your ass, with no one on the other end to push back.
We don't know the whole story, and it really depends on the situation. But from your OP, it seems like she doesn't want it to work out. Or she'd still be lingering and calling/texting you still.
It's tough, but from what you're telling us, it may be time to move on. You never know, maybe somewhere down the road you'll meet again. But as it stands now, it doesn't make sense to wait. There's a lot of self-betterment and life experiences waiting for you still. Don't get too hung up on this.
A side question, is this your first "real" relationship?